Acne and Dating
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When I was at uni there was a really cute blonde with one arm. Don't touch the face.
She looked 30 at least, and I looked 30 at most but was already in my forties and she wanted to talk about the problem--I wouldn't have discussed it at my own initiative. I think it's a tremendous waste of time. When my face was mostly clear and alright, I was so outgoing. I don't want to sleep with an ugly girl.
Acne and Dating - Acne has this amazing power to make us feel about ourselves.
Just out of curiosity, has acne and the scarring affected anyones dating life? My friends want to set me up with their mutual friend who has seen my picture and thought I was pretty, but I am terrified of his expression when he sees my scarring!! Nothing like the fear of rejection to keep you from a possibly fulfilling relationship! Anyways, anyone else experience this timidity and wanna share their story........ I used to hide from situations where I thought guys would not accept me either because of my scarring. I turned down many dates and opportunities because I was scared and insecure. Through the years as I got older and wiser, I finally accepted that my skin is never going to be perfect and I had to live my life and stop hiding. If a guy did not like me for my whole package, then you have to think -- he is not worth your time anyways! But think about the guys who will accept you completely for everything you are and everything you look like... And it is a chance... The only way we start to regain control of our lives is if we stop living in fear. So go on that date and see what could be waiting for you... As for the type of scarring, I am not sure how to describe it, its definatly indented but its not little round holes. They are a little bigger and flat. And to the girl who needs to do something quick... I have been talking to the guy since sept 00 and its already April 01 so my time is running short. I am lucky Ive been able to sting him along in hopes my skin would clear up.. Hes they type of guy that you would look at and call him a pretty boy and needless to say, hes really hot and that makes him really intimidating to me.... Thanks for the support. You guys are the greatest!! I have a tendency to unconsciously try to alienate people women who are OBVIOUSLY interested in me out of a fear of rejection. Logically, I know there is absolutely NOTHING constructive about this. It's ironic: I find myself rejecting fine women on dates out of fear that they'll eventually reject me.... I'm not going to lie and say I wouldn't notice, but after a while it doesn't seem like a bad thing. Think of all the physical things you first noticed about your friends. After you get to know them you just don't notice if they have acne or fillings or a peirced nose. You have to realize that people don't necessarily see you the way you see yourself in the mirror. I've turned down 3 dates in the past 2 months beacause I was insecure about my acne. I'm sure they are beginning to think I'm just fickle and give up on me. I know I'm missing out on great things, and am ready to just go ahead do it anyway.... But think how great it is that you know pretty quickly if a guy or gal is superficial when normally you might never find out for ages. Then I would walk so he couldn't look at my face, and I'd avoid him. I wouldn't let anyone look directly at me, just at the side of my face if they had to. And I still won't let anyone look directly at my face for that long. This is really hard because when he'd go to kiss my cheeck or something I wouldn't let him. And he would always say he wanted to look in my eyes, but I wouldn't let him do that either, it really hurt us in the long run. Put it this way, I have no dating life!! Oh hell, I barely have a social life anymore as it is! The funny thing is, it's not what other's think that affects me, it's what I think of my self that does! Right now, I really don't want to be around anybody or even be seen. When my face was mostly clear and alright, I was so outgoing. Now, my confidence has dropped so low and I've become a hermit again! I rarely look people in the eye anymore or look down when speaking to someone. I lose all my self esteem, and become a totally different person. When I have a bad breakout, I just want to stay in my apartment and hide from the world sometimes because I look so bad. Several times, I have actually skipped classes because my face was so bad, I did not want people I know to see me. A couple of weeks ago, it looked like I had the chickenpox, my forehead was broken out so bad with cystic acne. When I did go out on campus, I put on a baseball cap, and pulled it down low over my forhead so nobody would see. The worst part is that I am in my mid 20s, and I have had acne since I was 13. I am not supposd to have acne anymore.
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As far as dermabrasion, that was harsh and most doctors will not do it----the super expensive doctors, anyway. Since needling does the same thing, makes small holes in your skin I thought I would give it a try. I've been jesus for all kinds of lasers since then, Mostly Fraxel Restore. They are dating with acne little bigger and flat. It's ironic: I find myself rejecting fine women on dates out of fear that they'll eventually reject me. After all my treatments I'd say I'm 50% better in some some no idea at all in others. I personally think severe acne scars are a deal breaker for me. Even Brad Pitt had scars you can see them in his earlier filmsbut he got laser surgery to fix his skin.
